whenever i call my Sarvesh, i call him as "baby" , "ammu kutty", "chella kutty" and what kind of kutty coming from my mouth. He seems to be more irritated when i call with these nick names in front of his friends. when i call him as baby, he immediately shout at me "Mom, i am not a baby, i m a big boy because i am five years old, don't call me baby again .. hmm". It taking me so much time to realize that my boy has grown up so big. Though he is 5yrs, i m still thinking he s a small baby to me always. Love he pours on me, make me forget this world at times. whenever i worried about my aged parents and feels like missing them so much, he gives me strength and confidence and make me smile all the time.
If i feel lonely and sad, he calls me for a walk and talk to me about his school friends and other things which changes my mind. He is so much matured and he cant see my sad face any time. He cant even able to see me sit idle. whenever i sit idle, he calls me to dance with him and his friends. Slowly he started forgetting Tamil, the way he talks and the way he teaches me English is always fun.
There is always a big argument between me and Sarvesh about God and religions. He wants to celebrate Christmas, loves to keep Christmas tree in our house. I don't want to impose any religious thought to him. But at the same time, i don't want him to follow any kind of religious habits.I always teach him to obey elders, follow rules, accept his faults, faith in God, sharing, and love all the kids. After so many arguments he cant accept that there are so many gods to worship, but still he s able to understand that we cant place christmas tree in our house.
He got very good Indian friends of his age and other american friends, one big doubt he always have in his mind. One fine day, he asked me the doubt, "mummy, why there are two kids in one family, all my friends have sister or brother, but i don't have a elder brother or younger brother" . I am trying to give a best answer for his doubt :)
In all the situation, he is proving that he is a big boy and not a baby.
If i feel lonely and sad, he calls me for a walk and talk to me about his school friends and other things which changes my mind. He is so much matured and he cant see my sad face any time. He cant even able to see me sit idle. whenever i sit idle, he calls me to dance with him and his friends. Slowly he started forgetting Tamil, the way he talks and the way he teaches me English is always fun.
There is always a big argument between me and Sarvesh about God and religions. He wants to celebrate Christmas, loves to keep Christmas tree in our house. I don't want to impose any religious thought to him. But at the same time, i don't want him to follow any kind of religious habits.I always teach him to obey elders, follow rules, accept his faults, faith in God, sharing, and love all the kids. After so many arguments he cant accept that there are so many gods to worship, but still he s able to understand that we cant place christmas tree in our house.
He got very good Indian friends of his age and other american friends, one big doubt he always have in his mind. One fine day, he asked me the doubt, "mummy, why there are two kids in one family, all my friends have sister or brother, but i don't have a elder brother or younger brother" . I am trying to give a best answer for his doubt :)
In all the situation, he is proving that he is a big boy and not a baby.
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