One fine day...

On Feb 27Th 2009, three of my friends from my college came to see me in my home (my parent home).I was really excited to see them.Even then i got some minor pregnancy pains, i forgot everything and chatting with them. They bought me lots of fruits and sweets. it was a enjoyable period. Each and everyone who come to see you when you are pregnant gives you what you wish for. It was a nice enjoyable moment in your lifetime. Every women has to experience this in her life time.It was Naren (our so called Secretary of our department),Divya and Geetha came to see me on that fine day. We took photos and chat for a long time. I hate to be at my parents home (that is in race course, Coimbatore) because i was left all alone at home. My mom goes to office and my dad use to roam here and there. So i was very happy to be with my friends after a long time.

As usual, i started with Naren, who seems to be a perfect man. But actually speaking he is not. If you look at him for the first time, you will say that he is genuine personality. He is such a admirable person and he deserves for it.

My sweetest friend whom i like most is my Geetha, i like her so much from my first year of MCA, we use to talk a lot those days and as days gone, we started maintaing distance because of our posessiveness. I still remember the very first week of our MCA in PSG tech, we both not like our college,staffs,classmates etc etc. We both decided to discontinue MCA and try for a job. we sit together in the last bench and discussed about this. It looks very funny if i think of that day. She is very close to me. I like her so much for her care and love towards me.

Next, is Divya, she is such a wonderful person. she is very cool girl, very matured and lovable person. Though i m not too close to her, she always care for me because she is very close to Geetha.

I love to be with these people on that fine day. I introduced everyone to my father. He knows them very well but i wanna include him in the conversation but he escaped. We chat chat for more than an hour. side by side Naren started doing his work .. eating eating all the time very funny paiyan. we talk about those memorable college days.

We took lots of photos and they promised me that they will send me..till now, i m waiting for that.

I even asked Naren to buy a big gift for my kid after my delivery:)

Its very difficult to send off them, but it was Naren who started ,... "lets move ah??" Then the other two said "yeah its time.. lets move Naren". I feel very bored after they went.

Then as usual, i was talking to my mom and dad for sometime. My neighbour, a smart grandma, we use to call her dadi .. she came and talk with us for sometime. She even make me frightened about my pregnancy, she told all her experiences. As it was one week left for my pregnancy, i started thinking and make me uncomfortable.

Dadi told me that its very difficult if it is a c-section.You try to make it as a normal delivery. I was thinking about this till 10.00 o clock in the nite. Then i had my usual dinner, idily with super tomato chutney. I donno if it is my last dinner :( ....

At about 10.30 i went to my room , i feel very bored and uncomfortable. i donno what happens ..Then to make me normal i called up my hari (my husband), he was very busy in his office. he didnt pick my call. Then finally i called Raja (my cousin) and talk for a long time to make me relax. He make me laugh sometimes. That time i felt that something inside me is trying to come out .. i donno what to do .. i feel the pain but it is very minor pain

Now the time is 11.45, i remembered someone saying that if a baby is born on a friday, it is dangerous to the baby's father. I keep on praying that my baby should born on the next day.

I know it is a delivery symptoms and i wake up my mom. She was very tensed, makes her clam and want me to be calm. Nowadays delivery are always common and nobody worries about this too much. But being a mom, she feels very tensed.

My dad, very very tensed because he likes me so much more than my mom. He called up his friend to drive our car. Meanwhile i called up hari (he is in Chennai) and ask him to come to coimbatore. It was my luck he picked the phone.

I want to be with him in that tough time. Finally we reached the hospital - Sri Guru Hospital in saibaba colony.

I was asked to sit in a chair and we were waiting for Dr.Saidevi .. The time was around 12.30, my mom got irritated and shouted at the nurses. My dad felt very upset to see me with pains.

Saidevi came and she checked me and i felt very comfortable after that. She spoke to my mom for 15 minutes. I felt that it was something problem.

I didnt even worried about that i just prayed to God that my baby should be fine. Doctor then put me a injection to make it a normal delivery. Meanwhile the news was spread to my in-laws, my father-in-law came to see me. He just saw me lying in the bed and went outside.

My mom wrote sriramajayam , sitting near me and praying that everything should be fine. i got pains here and there. Doctor told me that we have to wait for 6 hours for the delivery.

Those six hours is a horrible time for me in my life time. Even then i got pains i keep on calling hari to come fast..very funny thought.

it was nearly 6.00 o clock in the morning, doctor decided to do me a c-section because we (me and my child) is in a critical stage. She told my mom that its 90% chance. My parents started crying more over shouting at all.

I m very cool because my inner soul told me that my child is fine inside. AT 6.30, I didnt able to feel my child's kick inside my stomach.

I even then got worried too much. Saidevi asked my mom to sign a c-section operation form, My mom refused to do so, and finally my dad signed it and told doctor that "I want my child back"

Finally at 7.30, i was in a operation room, i think everyone Will get afraid after seeing that room. I really afraid, tensed .. no words to express, i thought my life is gone. but i still prayed that i want my child soon ..

i want to see my child soon...they put me a injection. very silent, i was half sleep.. i heard a baby's cry .. doctor immediately ask me which child you want .. i said "Any child with good health"..

Doctor told "Smile Ma, Krishna is born for you" That is a boy baby at 7.51 in the morning.

i cried, i donno why i cried . i was very happy because i wish for a boy baby -my little hari has born for me.. my sweet chela kutte has born to save my rest of my life ..

Saidevi showed my son - See your son ...I saw only a bald head baby in that half sleep in a very dark room.

:) happy to see my son and my son is happy to see a new world , released from a dark room :)