Sarvesh's favourite heros

Sarvesh is now one year and 9 months old, after 3 months, he will be 2 yrs. I m also growing with him. learning lots of new things and analysing old things...he is such a great hero in my life.

He admires rajinikanth in the Robo movie..Sarvesh likes him so much..

you know why he likes rajinikanth because of the robo character. when we went to saw that movie, sarvesh was crying a lot. when the 1st song is played and the robo comes, Sarvesh shows some interest to see that movie.

whenever the song is played in any of the TV channels, where ever he is, he jumps and come to see that song.

even a picture of robo character makes my son so happy. Only for Sarvesh, i started admiring Rajinikanth also.

The other famous hero whom i like most is Karthi, surya's brother. Karthi acted in few flims - parthiviran,paiya,nan mahan alla..

Sarvesh also likes him so much as his Robo hero. I donno why sarvesh likes Karthi so much.. Actor Karthi is like a normal man - no style, no mass .. etc etc..

Sarvesh likes him so much. Actor Karthi is one of the favourite hero for Sarvesh..

My son always looks Karthi as a star..Super star..

Actor Karthi makes my son to be happy, make him dance and jump..

apart from the cine actors, Sarvesh likes his dad. For Sarvesh, his dad is a real hero always..

Sarvesh always want to be with his dad. The way he calls his dad is so nice to hear..

He always calls his dad as "daeeeeeee" - it means daddy :)
or else "babuuuuu" - it means babu (hari babu)

HariBabu - a real Hero for my son

:)

Fantastic Time pass with Sarvesh @ my home

On 5th June, 6.30 pm, I was at home with my son Sarvesh. My husband- Hari also came home by 7.30. For the past two weeks, Sarvesh started crying when the clock strikes 6 in the evening. It was a very bad time for us. We are not able to console him for anything. We showed moons,stars, bow bow (dogs), small sisters and brothers. Nothing worked out. He was crying, crying and finally he sleeps without having his dinner.
I don’t know what to do to make him normal. Yesterday it was really a surprise for us. I really scared that he might cry but unfortunately he played with me and had his dinner. I enjoyed running behind him.
And it nearly took an hour to feed him the dinner. Usually he will have idly or dosa by 6.30 itself. After finished the dinner, we (Sarvesh and me) went inside the home. I felt that he might cry now and we should not let him cry for anything. Whatever he asks, I gave him. Whatever he says I accepted and whatever he want me to do I did.. he wants me to dance, I danced, jumped, and crawled.
Finally Hari came home. I felt relaxed that he can take care of him. Then I took rest, sitting on the bean bag. Hari also sits near to me. Sarvesh started his work …
There is a small bed for him in which he always sleeps. I was surprised to see him jumping towards the bed. I was shocked and shouted to my husband “hari please take him…” but Sarvesh was not listening anyone’s word.
I was shouting at Sarvesh like “ Please Sarvesh don’t do this.. you might fall down..” he didn’t listen my words instead he closed my mouth and signs like don’t say this again.
I enjoyed that moment, and then I realize that Sarvesh has grown up. The first day I took him in my hands .. those moments are cherishing in my mind when he closed my mouth with his hands.
After that he started walking , walking and walking without seeing anything infront of him. To divert him, hari told him in telugu to beat me.. With such a smiling face, he came near to me and beat me. Then Hari told him to slash me in my face in telugu .. he signs like he understood and suddenly slash at my his face.
We both can’t control our laughing ,… I laughed whenever I think of that .. :)

Sarvesh Favourite ADs

Sarvesh favourite ADs are Pepsodent, Gold winner, Kisan Jam
Sarvesh likes these Ads because of the child artist acted in those Ads. He is so much attracted by the way the child artist says the dialogue. He also imitate the same reaction what they are doing.

For Pepsodent AD, last scene, a small girl says “Michamana moonu rubaila ice cream sapattaen yaaaaaaaa” It means that for the remaining amount i ate ice cream and the girl opens her mouth and show ahhhh..

The same way Sarvesh imitate her, whenever I want to make him cool I search for the channel that plays this AD. My bad luck, it won’t be displayed in any channels. Finally i says the same dialogue and he laughs at me.

Next is the Gold Winner AD- In this AD, the small kids were dancing and jumping and says “G for H Gold Winner for Health”. Sarvesh also dance like them. He won’t see anything till the AD is over.

For Kisan Jam AD – a small boy says to his Dad “Sharing – teacher soli kudukala” that means your teacher didn’t teach u about sharing. Sarvesh also tries to imitate the word “sharinggggggggg”.

It is a really nice experience to watch his activities. The other Ads he shows so much interest are the Cinema trailers- vaettaikaran Trailer- he like so much, he almost attracted to the first song in the movie. He use to dance for the trailer.
The most trailer which he really scares is the “Sura” trailer. Yesterday(5th May 2010), I was cooking in kitchen, as usual he was changing the TV channels, sun music, KTV and finally Sun TV, the Trailer was shown, he was crying and searching for me .. Because they showed the fight scene in the trailer. Then i took him and told that it is trailer, don’t worry, we won’t watch this flim 

First X-ray

On 28th April 4.30pm, i was in office, i was not well. My inner soul told me to go home quick and be with Sarvesh. So i asked permission from my PL and went home. I reached home by 5.00pm. Sarvesh was taking evening bath. My sister was saying him not to play with water, but he is such a adamant, he was playing with water. I was watching everything silently from the door. After seeing me he acts that he is a good boy. a cute smile invites me inside my home. he did a action like that he didnt play with water and saying na na na .. what a sweet child language is that ..

every mom should learn universal child language from his child and teach her language to her child. i have learnt something from my son.

he had his evening food and played with me. i was seriously talking to my sister about his daily activities.

We have a small portable TV in our room where he used to play. He shows so much interested to on/off an electronic things. Whenever if i want to divert him, i ask him to switch on the TV. He tries to switch on the TV. I was seriously talking to my sister.

Suddenly he tries to pull the TV down which was placed in a small stool. I tried to save him by pulling the TV to the other side.I m not able to hold him because of the weight of the TV. So he fells down. We both were shouted. I thought he was not wounded, but because of the noise, he was crying.

I tried him to cool down. But he was crying continuously showing his left foot. I was carrying him to make him cool down. I went to my neighbour home to meet Sarvesh's friend- Ganesh.

After seeing Ganesh, he was cool but he didnt smile at him. He tries to stand, suddenly he cries. I donno why he is crying. so i thought better to carry him. i showed stars, moon, bow bow (dogs, he use to call bow bow), so many small akka and annas.he didnt even smile for anything.

I donno what to do. finally i came home and make him to stand, he cried again. i noticed that his left foot were swelled.

i was shocked and he didnt even stop crying. i called my husband, hari told me to go his doctor immediatedly. so i took a auto with the help of my neighbour and went to the hospital. We waited for 5 minutes and my husband came to the hospital.

Sarvesh doctor KP was not available, so we met the duty doctor in that hospital. The doctor told that it may be fracture, there are lots of bones in that area, so it is difficult to find out, so take a x-ray.

I really cried because if it is fracture, Sarvesh will suffer a lot. So i cried. Hari was scolding me not to cry.

The time was 21.45, duty doctor told that dr.KP's son wil come and check your son.
Dr.Thigarajan (ortho specialist) check the foot and told us to get the X-ray soon. so we went to BM hospital to take the x-ray.

We took the x-ray and came to the hospital again to visit dr.Thigarajan. He checked the x-ray and told us "Nothing to Worry- There is no fracture" i was cool then.

At about 22.30, he tries to sleep.so we went home and gave all the tablets. He slept nicely.

Next day i woke up so earlier, finished all my work soon and planned to be with him the whole day.

he woked up at 8.45(his usual time) and smiled at my husband. i was preparing breakfast for him. he also smiled at me but refused to come to me.

I was little worried and was happy to see him. He was Ok, thats enough for me. The swelling was somewhat better.

Again he started his usual playing... :)

First Birthday

Sarvesh completes one year .. Wow i m so happy to celebrate his first birthday. We have planned everything before a month itself. The most difficult was to select a nice dress for that cute fellow.

where to go? what to buy? we (a group of ten people) are analysed where to buy his birthday dress. Finally we decided to go for STYLE ONE velacherry.

So we went on Feb 6th to Style One, a nice 4 floor stylish shop in velachery. I so interested to get him a different dress. But unfortunately, i got a normal dress which all kids use to wear.

Style one didnt disappoint us. They have lots of collection for kids. It was 3rd floor for kids. So i went up and took all possible new collection dresses. I nearly selected 5- 6 pairs for him and finally i selected one gold color sharwani.

My husband and our friends came to see all my selection. But they decided to get that Gold color Sharwani. It was Ok for me .. But i need something different. For Boys, it is always a jean , t-shirt, short pant and shirts are available. Finally we tried that Sharwani, Sarvesh looks very smart in that. Everyone opts for that.


He looks very cute and smart in Sharwani



so b'day dress is ready, where to celebrate??

I was decided to celebrate his first birthday in a nice resturant. But my husband wants it very simple. Anyways we have analysed a 4- 5 nice resturant in chennai and decided to celebrate in Flamingo resturant Velacherry.

It was a very nice resturant. One of our close friend Jagadeesh, suggested that resturant to us.

So we decided to go for it. We planned for cake-cutting, followed by dinner and photo session.

So b'day hall is ready. what about Cake???

My husband analyses lot of b'day cake design, finally he decided to get a three stories big germany forest cake for his B'day ..

On feb 28th 2010, Sarvesh was beautifully dressed in Sharwani, lite touch up, hari in his usual dressing and me in green saree and jewels, celebrated his b'day in Flamingo.

Almost 50 people attended his b'day, he was in full of joy, playing with toys and ballons. He is interested to eat sweets, cakes etc etc




Wonderful B'day celebration.

First travel with Sarvesh in Cheran express

Sleepless night, restless day, every day went like this when I was in my parent’s home and my mother-in-law’s home. I just can’t imagine how I sacrifice my sleep for my Sarvesh. On May 8th, we have planned to go to Chennai. Everyone in his home and my home worried how I will manage with a small kid. But I was confident that I will manage everything with that cute fellow.

We have planned like this—we need a grandma to bath him and a maid to help me in household works. Hari started searching for two people near my home. We are very close to our neighbor -Karthi and family. Karthi is my colleague, so we have become very close to his family members. Mrs. Chitra – Karthi’s mom helped me in so many things when I was pregnant and she showed so much interest towards my kid. So, she requested a grand ma to help me and finally Hari spoke to her and told what works she has to do.

Everything was ready in Chennai, we started from Coimbatore. My brother, raja and I started on May 7th 10.00 o clock night in Cheran express towards Chennai. I prepared everything for him, Sarvesh use to have lactogen sometimes, so I have a flask of hot water, lactogen powder and a small bottle of sugar.

He was fully covered with a yellow color bed; this was a new one which is available in market to take new born babies comfortable. We have to place the baby in the center of the bed, there are two zips available at the left, right and bottom, and it should be closed after the baby is placed. There is one zip at the top to cover the baby’s head.

Everything was set properly; I was scared to take him in train. We were in AC coach, so he wore socks, shouter, gloves etc etc. He didn’t make any noise till the train starts. At exactly, 2.00, he started crying, I get up and make his lactogen very fastly. My brother helped me to make lactogen. He cried as if he was beaten by someone. Finally I managed to make him cool , he then tried to sleep on my lap. I felt very relaxed after he sleeps, then I tried to sleep.

Not bad, everything went very smoothly till we reach our home 

First Bath for my baby

I was there in the hospital for almost a week... Sometimes I enjoyed and sometimes I felt very bored and depressed :(

If my son sleeps, (all time he was sleeping) I felt very bored... After 2 days of my delivery, I felt I should get up soon and take my son. So I tried hard to get up soon. Dr.Saidevi advised me not to get up from bed but you know I can’t control anything. I don’t have control over anything.

If I felt like doing something, I will do it, I won’t think of consequences and moreover I won’t think after that also.

Finally, on March 3rd, in the morning we (me and my baby) are alone in that room. All my injected areas are removed, so I try to get up from the bed, he is lying beside me. I took him. I remember people keep on saying that we should be very careful while taking new born babies that to for the first three months.

I took him very carefully, with my right hand holding his head and the other hand to hold his body. I felt it. He is very lite and moreover they have injected him and that injection needle is still in his hand. It’s very difficult for him to move that hand.

He lost weight because of that fever. I felt upset to see him like that. There was a lot of difference between his appearance from the first day and the fourth day. I felt that he is very flexible; he is more stretchable. Even that single cot is not enough for him. There was no place for me in that single cot. I even requested for double cot :)

Doctor strictly advised not to bath him for at least a week. So he took towel bath twice in a day. I was very happy to do that, because it was very easy.

On March 7th, my in-laws decided to do a pooja for the new boy so they have decided to discharge us from the hospital. I got ready and he was sleeping on my lap. The car has come, I was stepping towards the car, and after long back I saw the sunlight, my eyes got irritated because of the nature light. This cute fellow is sleeping nicely in my cousin’s hand.

He was covered in a pink colour towel and dressed up nicely in blue colour dress. We entered into the hall. He was sleeping all the time. I finished taking bath, finished my breakfast and waiting for him.

The moment which I scared for..., has come... Hari’s aunty was ready to bath him. Bath kid is ready, new towel, new Johnson’s baby soap, new baby oil, and some homemade powder for his bald head. You just can’t see the child while they are taking bath because they won’t stop crying till they finished the bath. I was expecting the same.

He was placed on aunt’s legs. A cup of warm water was poured on him. All were really surprised, he didn’t even shout or cry or make any noise. He was very silent, till they finished the bathing process for him. They put that homemade powder and wash it. Then they rub his hand and leg and bath him with the baby soap, finally they took off his bangles and break it at each end.

Oops I was really happy to see him like this.. with all the usual make ups :)



That was indeed a nice experience with his first bath.

First day with my baby

On Feb 28th, 8.30 in the morning, i was in a bed in a hospital room.I started realising that i have become a mom, a responsible mother..and i have so much responsibility for my child. But i didnt see my child till 10.00 o'clock. I was very eager to see that hero who was inside me for more than 40 weeks, all time kicking me and sometimes make me cry with pains.

My mom and my mother-in-law was with me but i wanna see my hari soon. I was keep on asking to my mother-in-law when he wil come...

You know i realise the world truth it was in fact each and every women in this world realise the pain of motherhood. I even cried after seeing my mom and started asking me how much pain i gave you mom sorry ma.

As it was a few months back, i look like this ..



Now i felt that i have become slim .. but its not like that .. still i look as if i m pregnant ..

Then i started crying to one of the nurses that i want to see my son.She told me that my son got fever because of some problem during surgery. i really shocked to hear that .. suddenly dr.Saidevi came and explained me that he needs to be in a hot room to bring him to a normal temperature. i requested her that i wanna see him at least once.

She told me that she wil arrange for that and asked me not to talk and take rest for few hours. But i tried to sleep, it was a dream that i wanna see him once.

A few people, his aunt,his father and other relatives came to see me.. i didn't talk to anyone ..

a few hours after, his cousin raja, his friend sujith, sujith's sister and parents came to see me, i just woked up and spoke to them a few words.. they went to saw my baby, they told me that he is very cute,bubbly and charming and he looks like hari.

Now my curiosity goes beyond a limit, i want to see that cute fellow.. when i will..i just cant control my feelings , love for him .. it was indeed a mother's love for a baby that should be showed immediately :(

i cried inside and smiled outside..and finally hari's aunty requested doctor to send that cute boy to my room . doctor accepted with lots of conditions.. That we should avoid lots of people in that room ..

Everything accepted .. the cute boy came to my room with 2 or 3 nurses around him.. he is covered with a white cloth, looks very pink , very bubbly, charming, smart boy , he is around 3 kg 500gms , looks so bubbly .. very cute ... finding words to describe him :)

You know i m not able to hold him in my hand .. two of my hands are injected for glucose and blood.. i just see him and ask one of the nurse to take him too closer to me and i kissed him for the first time ..

A nurse told him " Dae see ur mom" everyone in that room smiled .. but i cried ..
because i m unable to hold him .. lemme wait for some more days .. few days 3 or 2 days ..lemme wait

He saw me for the first time .. his eyes are blue really very cute eyes .. big eyes .. big head ..looks like a hero :) yeah every child to his mom looks like a hero ..

You know what its really a tough time .. sleepless nite for the first time in my life . i use to sleep all the time .. i love to sleep always i got lot of scolds from my parents ..

I love to sleep and imagine . i usually in my imaginary world .. its very difficult to be in reality . half of my life is in imaginary world .. i imagine as if i m a heroine in this world

i sacrifice my sleep for my son .. we (me,my mom and my cousin sister) had a very tough time with my son on the very first day.

he cried a lot and lot i donno why he is crying .. i need to feed him often so i didn't sleep properly .. Those days are really tough days ..

He is such cute boy i cant even see him crying crying .. we called nurse around and asked why he is crying like this.. they told us its very difficult for the child to be in a new environment

i begged him like "Please dont cry da please.." i also cried with him .. even he refused to have milk also ..

The whole nite went like this ..crying sleeping then crying sleeping ...

One fine day...

On Feb 27Th 2009, three of my friends from my college came to see me in my home (my parent home).I was really excited to see them.Even then i got some minor pregnancy pains, i forgot everything and chatting with them. They bought me lots of fruits and sweets. it was a enjoyable period. Each and everyone who come to see you when you are pregnant gives you what you wish for. It was a nice enjoyable moment in your lifetime. Every women has to experience this in her life time.It was Naren (our so called Secretary of our department),Divya and Geetha came to see me on that fine day. We took photos and chat for a long time. I hate to be at my parents home (that is in race course, Coimbatore) because i was left all alone at home. My mom goes to office and my dad use to roam here and there. So i was very happy to be with my friends after a long time.

As usual, i started with Naren, who seems to be a perfect man. But actually speaking he is not. If you look at him for the first time, you will say that he is genuine personality. He is such a admirable person and he deserves for it.

My sweetest friend whom i like most is my Geetha, i like her so much from my first year of MCA, we use to talk a lot those days and as days gone, we started maintaing distance because of our posessiveness. I still remember the very first week of our MCA in PSG tech, we both not like our college,staffs,classmates etc etc. We both decided to discontinue MCA and try for a job. we sit together in the last bench and discussed about this. It looks very funny if i think of that day. She is very close to me. I like her so much for her care and love towards me.

Next, is Divya, she is such a wonderful person. she is very cool girl, very matured and lovable person. Though i m not too close to her, she always care for me because she is very close to Geetha.

I love to be with these people on that fine day. I introduced everyone to my father. He knows them very well but i wanna include him in the conversation but he escaped. We chat chat for more than an hour. side by side Naren started doing his work .. eating eating all the time very funny paiyan. we talk about those memorable college days.

We took lots of photos and they promised me that they will send me..till now, i m waiting for that.

I even asked Naren to buy a big gift for my kid after my delivery:)

Its very difficult to send off them, but it was Naren who started ,... "lets move ah??" Then the other two said "yeah its time.. lets move Naren". I feel very bored after they went.

Then as usual, i was talking to my mom and dad for sometime. My neighbour, a smart grandma, we use to call her dadi .. she came and talk with us for sometime. She even make me frightened about my pregnancy, she told all her experiences. As it was one week left for my pregnancy, i started thinking and make me uncomfortable.

Dadi told me that its very difficult if it is a c-section.You try to make it as a normal delivery. I was thinking about this till 10.00 o clock in the nite. Then i had my usual dinner, idily with super tomato chutney. I donno if it is my last dinner :( ....

At about 10.30 i went to my room , i feel very bored and uncomfortable. i donno what happens ..Then to make me normal i called up my hari (my husband), he was very busy in his office. he didnt pick my call. Then finally i called Raja (my cousin) and talk for a long time to make me relax. He make me laugh sometimes. That time i felt that something inside me is trying to come out .. i donno what to do .. i feel the pain but it is very minor pain

Now the time is 11.45, i remembered someone saying that if a baby is born on a friday, it is dangerous to the baby's father. I keep on praying that my baby should born on the next day.

I know it is a delivery symptoms and i wake up my mom. She was very tensed, makes her clam and want me to be calm. Nowadays delivery are always common and nobody worries about this too much. But being a mom, she feels very tensed.

My dad, very very tensed because he likes me so much more than my mom. He called up his friend to drive our car. Meanwhile i called up hari (he is in Chennai) and ask him to come to coimbatore. It was my luck he picked the phone.

I want to be with him in that tough time. Finally we reached the hospital - Sri Guru Hospital in saibaba colony.

I was asked to sit in a chair and we were waiting for Dr.Saidevi .. The time was around 12.30, my mom got irritated and shouted at the nurses. My dad felt very upset to see me with pains.

Saidevi came and she checked me and i felt very comfortable after that. She spoke to my mom for 15 minutes. I felt that it was something problem.

I didnt even worried about that i just prayed to God that my baby should be fine. Doctor then put me a injection to make it a normal delivery. Meanwhile the news was spread to my in-laws, my father-in-law came to see me. He just saw me lying in the bed and went outside.

My mom wrote sriramajayam , sitting near me and praying that everything should be fine. i got pains here and there. Doctor told me that we have to wait for 6 hours for the delivery.

Those six hours is a horrible time for me in my life time. Even then i got pains i keep on calling hari to come fast..very funny thought.

it was nearly 6.00 o clock in the morning, doctor decided to do me a c-section because we (me and my child) is in a critical stage. She told my mom that its 90% chance. My parents started crying more over shouting at all.

I m very cool because my inner soul told me that my child is fine inside. AT 6.30, I didnt able to feel my child's kick inside my stomach.

I even then got worried too much. Saidevi asked my mom to sign a c-section operation form, My mom refused to do so, and finally my dad signed it and told doctor that "I want my child back"

Finally at 7.30, i was in a operation room, i think everyone Will get afraid after seeing that room. I really afraid, tensed .. no words to express, i thought my life is gone. but i still prayed that i want my child soon ..

i want to see my child soon...they put me a injection. very silent, i was half sleep.. i heard a baby's cry .. doctor immediately ask me which child you want .. i said "Any child with good health"..

Doctor told "Smile Ma, Krishna is born for you" That is a boy baby at 7.51 in the morning.

i cried, i donno why i cried . i was very happy because i wish for a boy baby -my little hari has born for me.. my sweet chela kutte has born to save my rest of my life ..

Saidevi showed my son - See your son ...I saw only a bald head baby in that half sleep in a very dark room.

:) happy to see my son and my son is happy to see a new world , released from a dark room :)

I Me myself

I am a working mom enjoying every moment with my kid - Sarvesh. I wanna share my experiences with him thro his blog.